Time to make new friends: here’s how

When it comes to the social intercourse of the university, the way of remarking on others is something I am eager to talk about.  Just as we had read from the passage, learn to keep your mouth shut and you’ll avoid trouble. That is verily true. And I have to add that, whenever you want to make some constructive comments on others or just put forward your notion towards him or her, second thoughts are best.

Here go my reasons. For one thing, it could be your biased opinion that may make the one you remarked on feel absurd and be in contempt of what you have said. So you see, if you don’t know someone well, please don’t judge him, for you haven’t been given the qualification.

Please don’t claim your own judgment

For another, your inadvertent words might hurt others somehow or even impose a negative impact on others. You could gain grudges indeed. It seems no benefits for you both at all. Therefore, it would be much better that you let your critical words go and learn to praise, for a single line may impress your interlocutor. Thus the win-win job you will do.

That being said, assuming you only want to scoff somebody kindly to endear people around and create a relaxing atmosphere, go ahead.

Then again, everyone is supposed to have a good command of skillfully remarking, which can promote competitiveness. If not, avoid it. Otherwise it may chip away at your profile.