奔三的人应该知道的21件小事(（中英双语）

奔三的人应该知道的21件小事

21 Small Things Every Late Twentysomething Should Know

You do not have to attend every wedding you’re invited to: You can say no!
你不一定要参加每一场婚礼，你可以拒绝婚礼邀请！

You do need to go out sometimes, but you are not automatically old and boring if you need to take time to recharge.
你有时候的确需要出去走走，但是如果你需要好好休息一下，并不意味着你又老又无聊。

Date whoever you want, just aim for quality.
约会你喜欢的人，只是记得要提高质量。

If you aren’t where you want to be in your career, there is still time. DO NOT PANIC!
如果你的事业没有达到预期，不要惊慌，你还有时间！

But take steps to get to that dream career NOW. Don’t wait.
但是不要等待，朝着自己的职业理想奋进吧！

When it comes to clothes: Splurge on classic pieces that will last forever instead of the trendy ones.
说到穿衣服，宁可把钱挥霍在永远经典的衣物上，也不要买一堆潮服。

Take care of your damn fitness.
注意你的身体健康。

Start a savings account, if you haven’t already.
如果你还没有储蓄账户，那么开一个吧！

Call your parents at least once a week.
每周至少给父母打一个电话。

Make one-on-one time for your close friends.
跟亲密的朋友要有单独相处的时间。

And let go of toxic friends, they are not worth it.
不要再和那些损友联系，他们不值得。

Ask for what you deserve in jobs, and be direct with your superiors.
在工作中与上级坦诚的交流，敢于提出与自己能力相当的加薪或升职要求。

Treat yourself every once in a while.
偶尔犒劳一下自己。

You will get hungover as fuck if you drink too much. YOU’VE BEEN WARNED.
如果你喝太多酒，会很难受的。我已经警告你了啊！

Take care of your skin. Seriously.

保养你的皮肤。我是认真的。

You will probably have an identity crisis, and that is OK.
你可能会遇到身份危机，没关系的。

You will see people younger than you who are more successful than you and it will hurt like a fucking bitch.
当你看到比你年轻却比你成功的人时，心会很痛。

Pick up a new hobby or try something you’ve never done before.
培养一个新爱好或做一些你以前从未做过的事。

Your metabolism is going to change.
你的新陈代谢会改变。

You don’t have to settle just because all your friends are getting married.
不要只是因为你所有的朋友都结婚了而强迫自己成家。

Above all else: Always be true to yourself, and fuck anyone who can’t handle it.

最重要的一点：永远做真实的自己，忽视那些看不惯你的人。