什么样的女人最讨男人喜欢？有人说是优雅漂亮的，有人说是端庄贤惠的，还有人说是温柔善良的……不一而足。虽然每个女人都有自己的特点和长处。但是，能让男人疯狂付出的女人，却是这一种：有趣。
有趣的女人，活得通透明白。作家贾平凹说：“人可以无知，但不可以无趣。”有趣的人，是最有魅力的。而有趣的女人，则更容易获得男人的青睐。很多女人在结婚后，将全部身心都放在家庭上，不再打扮自己，也不再注重自我提升。久而久之，日子越过越平淡，夫妻感情也日渐疏远。聪明的女人始终让自己保持有趣。读书、旅行、跳舞、健身……她们时刻对生活充满热情，从不放弃自我成长，总会给你出其不意的惊喜。她们更懂得保持个性，不管婚前还是婚后，从不降低对自我的要求。
曾有一位女作家说：“女人不是生而为女人的，而是被变成女人的。”这句话的意思就是说，女人只有活出女人味儿来，才能成为一个完美的女人。而，所谓的活出女人味，大概就是能够愉悦自己，让自己成为一个拥有有趣灵魂的女人。一个女人，只有内外兼修，让灵魂丰盈，方能有一个精彩绝伦的人生。
有趣的女人，如诗如画，百读不厌。王小波曾说：“一个人只拥有此生此世是不够的，她还应该拥有诗意的世界”。有趣的女人，就如一本好书，让人爱不释手、百读不厌。不必事事精通，但有丰富的阅历和见识，对事情有自己的一番见解。即使没有足够好的物质条件，也能把平常日子过成诗。即使陷入生活的柴米油盐，也能够怡然自得。一个有灵气的女子，气质是基础，聪慧是锦上添花，有趣才是灵魂的内核。
有趣的女人就像行走的春药，充满魅力，总是让人不自觉地被她们吸引。 柏杨先生曾写过：“世界上最倾倒众生的不是美丽的女人，而是最有吸引力的女人。”和有趣的女人相处，总能不断地给人以新的感受，新的收获，就像宝藏，让人想要不断挖掘。这种神秘感会让男人产生好奇，吸引他不断探索，欲罢不能，朝思暮想、念念不忘。
有趣，是一个女人的顶级智慧。她们性格乐观、谈吐风趣，既不纠结于事，又不困惑于情。不但能够经营好自己的工作生活，还会让身边的人感到轻松快乐。漂亮的女人悦目，有趣的女人赏心。和有趣的女人相处，男人们一边感到轻松开心，一边又觉得被撩的心痒痒，不知不觉间就会越陷越深。
也许有人会说，男人不都是视觉生物吗？话虽如此，但是你要知道，好看的外表，只能吸引男人一时，不能吸引男人一世。一个人的容颜无法改变，但是有趣的灵魂，却可以慢慢培养。在修饰外表的同时，也不要忘记修炼内心。内外兼修，才能成为更好的自己。
What kind of women are most attractive to men? Some say they are elegant and beautiful, some say they are dignified and virtuous, and some say they are gentle and kind. Although every woman has her own characteristics and strengths. However, women who can make men pay crazily are of this kind: interesting.
Interesting women, live thoroughly and clearly. Writer Jia Pingwa said, 'People can be ignorant, but not uninteresting.' Interesting people are the most attractive. Interesting women are more likely to win the favor of men. After marriage, many women put their whole body and mind on the family, no longer dress themselves, and no longer pay attention to self-improvement. As time goes by, the days become more and more dull, and the relationship between husband and wife becomes increasingly estranged. Smart women always keep themselves interesting. Reading, traveling, dancing, fitness... They are always enthusiastic about life and never give up self-growth. They will always surprise you. They know better to maintain their personality and never lower their demands on themselves before and after marriage.
A woman writer once said, 'Women are not born to be women, but are turned into women.' This sentence means that women can become a perfect woman only if they live like women. However, the so-called femininity is to be able to delight yourself and make yourself a woman with an interesting soul. A woman can have a wonderful life only by cultivating both inside and outside and making her soul rich.
Interesting women, picturesque, never tire of reading. Wang Xiaobo once said: 'It is not enough for a person to have only this life, she should also have a poetic world'. An interesting woman is like a good book, which makes people love it and never tire of reading it. You don't need to be proficient in everything, but you have rich experience and insight, and have your own opinions on things. Even if there is not enough good material conditions, we can turn ordinary life into poetry. Even if you are trapped in the daily necessities of life, you can also feel comfortable. A woman with spirit, temperament is the foundation, intelligence is the icing on the cake, and fun is the core of her soul.
Interesting women are like walking aphrodisiacs, full of charm and always attract people unconsciously. Mr. Boyang once wrote: 'The most attractive woman in the world is not the beautiful woman, but the most attractive woman.' Being with an interesting woman can always give people new feelings and new harvest, just like a treasure, which makes people want to constantly explore. This kind of mystery will make a man curious and attract him to explore constantly. He can't stop thinking about it.
Interesting, is a woman's top wisdom. They are optimistic and witty. They are neither entangled in matters nor confused with feelings. Not only can you manage your work and life well, but also make people around you feel relaxed and happy. Beautiful women are pleasing to the eyes, and interesting women are pleasing to the heart. With interesting women, men feel relaxed and happy at the same time, and feel itchy when being teased. They will get deeper and deeper unconsciously.
Some people may say, aren't men all visual creatures? That said, but you should know that good looks can only attract men for a while, not for a lifetime. A person's face cannot be changed, but an interesting soul can be cultivated slowly. While decorating your appearance, don't forget to cultivate your heart. Only by cultivating both inside and outside can we become better ourselves.
