亦舒的三观：真正有气质的淑女，从不炫耀她所拥有的一切

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亦舒的三观

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亦舒的三观，放在现在也不过时

爱

情

My dear young friend, I've already spoken for decades, and I still plan to continue speaking: A woman must fight for her livelihood with her own hands first. Only then she has the right to pursue joy, happiness, and dream. In order to meet colleagues, friends, and companion who share similar interests, she must first have a job. Then she can marry and give birth to children, or she can stay alone for her entire life. This is called choice, it is also freedom.

年轻的朋友，我讲了几十年，还打算一直说下去：一个女子，必须先凭双手争取生活，才有资格追求快乐、幸福、理想。无论如何要有职业，因而结识志同道合的同事、朋友、对象，届时，可以结婚生子，也可以独身终老，这叫做选择，亦即是自由。

——《红到几时》

When a man no longer loves his woman, it is a fault for her to cry and scream as well as stay silent; it is a fault for her to live and breathe as well as to die.

当一个男人不再爱他的女人，她哭闹是错，静默也是错，活着呼吸是错，死了都是错。

——《爱情之死》

Your true love will not make you suffer. The person who really loves you will not make you worry about your gains and losses. There are people who win the jackpot by buying only one lottery, there are also people who become famous by writing only one book. Whenever you experience hardship, it is importune, because True Love makes people joyful. If you feel like suffering, there must be something wrong. You need to start over as soon as possible.

真正属于你的爱情不会叫你痛苦，爱你的人不会叫你患得患失，有人一票就中了头奖，更有人写一本书就成了名。凡觉得辛苦，即是强求。真正的爱情叫人欢愉，如果你觉得痛苦，一定是出了错，需及时结束，重头再来。

——《我爱，我不爱》

A man cannot walk away is only because he doesn’t want to walk away; a man breaks a promise is only because he doesn’t want to fulfill the promise. All excuses are nonsense, and they are all used to conceal the reluctant sacrifice.

一个人走不开，不过因为他不想走开；一个人失约，乃因他不想赴约，一切借口均属废话，都是用以掩饰不愿牺牲。

——《—千零一妙方》

A real elegant lady never shows off the things she has. She never tells anyone what books she has read, what places she has been to, how many clothes she has, and what kind of jewelry she has bought, because she is not self-contempt.

真正有气质的淑女，从不炫耀她所拥有的一切，她不告诉人她读过什么书，去过什么地方，有多少件衣服，买过什么珠宝，因为她没有自卑感。

——《圆舞》

I need lots and lots of love. If there’s no love, then I need lots and lots of money. If there’s neither, then stay in good health is also good.

我要很多很多的爱。如果没有爱，那么就很多很多的钱，如果两件都没有，有健康也是好的。

——《喜宝》

婚

姻

There is no connection between marriage and love. People often think after the love becomes ripe they will necessarily get married, but they don’t know getting married is only a way of life. Everyone can marry because it is very easy, but love is a completely different story.

结婚与恋爱毫无关系，人们老以为恋爱成熟后便自然而然的结婚，却不知结婚只是一种生活方式，人人可以结婚，简单得很。而爱情完全是另外一回事。

——《我的前半生》

He and she are both ordinary people. If something big actually happens, he can’t save her, and she can’t afford him. But right everything is still fine. She just want to take a hot shower after a long day of work, sit on the couch, chatting desultorily with him. If there’s no passionate love, let it be that way.

他与她都是凡人，真有什么大事，他救不了她，她也无力背他，不过这还是太平盛世，她只想在忙碌一整天之后好好淋个浴，坐在沙发上，一搭没一搭地与他闲话家常。没有热恋就没有热恋的好了。

——《红尘》

Mao Yongxin steered at her and said :”Both you and I went to university, age under 30, and have a job. This kind of women is already destined for failure: In front of parents, in the office, and in front of our husbands, we need to endure and endure; when we can no longer endure, we need to start over and endure again.” Chenghuan asks, “No exceptions?” “Nope, blame yourself for been so polite and knowledgeable. There are many things you can’t do, many things you disdained to do, and many things you can’t do.”

毛咏欣看她一眼，“你我受过大学教育，年纪在三十岁以下，有一份职业，这样的女性，已立于必败之地，在父母家，在办公室，在男伴之前，都需忍完再忍，忍无可忍，重新再忍。”承欢问：“没有例外？”“咄，谁叫你知书识礼，许多事不可做，许多事不屑做，又有许多事做不出。”

一一《承欢记》

Whenever a person breaks up with you, he didn’t make the choice out of sudden. Human hearts cool down slowly, leaves turn yellow slowly, stories reach the end slowly, and love turns into no love when there’s too much disappointment.

任何一个人离开你，都并非突然做的决定，人心是慢慢变冷，树叶是渐渐变黄，故事是缓缓写到结局，而爱是因为失望太多才变成不爱。

一一《如果墙会说话》

友

情

There is a type of friend that is hard to get. When I’m successful, she doesn’t envy; when I’m poor, she doesn’t despise me. In one’s life it is enough to have one confidant.

那种难得的朋友。我成功，她不嫉妒。我委靡，她不轻视。人生得一知己足矣。

一一《流金岁月》

If we are friends, just make it easy for us to be friends. I hate people to pry into my secret. If you think it is worthy, let us shake hands and become friends again. If not, then find someone else. But don’t try to find out my secret. My secret belongs to the dark,

做朋友便是做朋友那么简单，最恨別人去打听我的私隐，如果你认为值得付出友谊，让我们握手言欢，如果不，那么去找別人，但別试图探听我的秘密。我的秘密，属于黑暗。

一一《圆舞》

生

活

If you really want to accomplish something, then no matter what obstacles there are on the way, you will use everything you have to stride over it. But if you don’t really want to accomplish something, then no matter how flat the road ahead is, you will use all excuses to stop yourself from moving forward.

如果你真的想做一件事情，那么就算障碍重重，你也会想尽一切办法去办到它。但若是你不是真心的想要去完成一件事情，那么纵使前方道路平坦，你也会想尽一切理由阻止自己向前。

一一《不是理由》

Whatever happens, a person is always not worthy for forgiveness when he or she degenerates with an excuse. You need to love yourself more when there’s no one else loving you.

无论怎么样，一个人借故堕落总是不值得原谅的，越是没有人爱，越要爱自己。

一一《星之碎片》

If you cannot achieve something, it is your own problem. When you are alone, you can think about it and regret as much as you want. But in front of others, I need you to pretend as if nothing has ever happened. You can do it, I can do it, we all can do it. This is how people survive in this world.

做不到是你自己的事，午夜梦回，你爱怎么回味就怎么回味，但人前人后，我要你装出什么都没有发生过的样子。你可以的，我们都可以，人都是这般活下来的。

一一《叹息桥》

'How to live the life elegantly?'

'Wash and care your body often. Stay away from cigarette, alcohol, and drug. Sleep well. Also, don't make yourself too full when you are having meal.”

'How about love?'

'Enjoy the time you spend with the other person. Don't hope for the other person to treat you like a princess.'

“如何优雅老去？”

“勤力洗洁护理肉身，不烟不酒勿沾毒药，睡眠充足，还有，不可吃饱，常带三分饥。”

“恋爱呢？”

“多享受异性陪伴，勿奢望对方仆心仆命。”

一一《代寻失去时光》

You don’t need to be strong, but you need to have a dream. Because if you don’t have any dreams to fight for, in the future you will only work for other people’s dream. On the trip of pursuing your dream you can cry, but you cannot stop.

你可以不够强大，但是你不能没有梦想。如果你没有梦想，将来你就只能为別人的梦想打工，这一路你可以哭，但你一定不能停。

The weirdest person in the world is called friend: Whenever you obtain fame or fortune, friends come close to you; whenever you face problems or bad luck, friends stay away from you. It is not worth it to spend too much time to make friends, because only fate leads you to friends. We need to be self-independence.

世上最奇怪的一种人叫朋友，略得些名利，朋友全来了；略咳嗽一声，朋友又全部散开，宜随缘，不直花太多精力追求。人贵自立。

一一《寒武纪》

After experiencing so much failures and facing so much obstacles, I finally get to understand the meaning of these words.

经历诸多曲折和弯路，才明白这字字珠玑。

英文翻译：Jon, 热爱欧美历史的留美高中生。

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