很多时候,当别人需要我们去做一些事的时候,我们因为没时间,或没必要去做,而不知道该如何拒绝别人的要求,可能因为我们害怕说了“不”之后会受到别人的另眼看待,那么这样真的好吗?
今天小编就和大家一起来学习如何礼貌的拒绝别人的要求,给自己避免很多不必要的麻烦。
首先,不要让别人觉得你的拒绝personal,或者Decline with gratitude.
I’m sorry I have to turn you down.
I’m really not in the mood.
I would like to join, but…
That’s a really good idea, but I …
I wish I could help you, but I …
Normally I would be able to, but I …
I appreciate the offer, but …
I am sorry I can’t come that day. I have…
I don’t feel like…
That’s very kind of you, but I’m afraid…
先表示感激或歉意,然后说出原因。
其次,关注于 what you CAN do,如果可能,提供 alternatives.
I might be able to do it next week.
I can’t come tomorrow, but I can volunteer….next week.
I can’t right now, but maybe later.
I can’t at the moment, but I’m happy to help you later.
I would like very much to join you another time.
最后,keep confidence, unfront.
有礼貌地拒绝别人同时,要展现出自己的自信和坚决。不要因为拒绝而不好意思。人们都尊重有自信的人,而非因为拒绝了别人而感到内疚。
你学会了吗?
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