我们人生里的感情，无非是亲情、爱情、友情。
The feelings in our life are nothing more than family, love and friendship.
亲情总让我们歉疚，爱情总让我们迷乱，三者之中，友情最轻，但却因为它的轻，最让我们舒服。
Family love always makes us feel guilty, and love always makes us confused. Of the three, friendship is the lightest, but because of its lightness, it makes us most comfortable.
喜欢那么一种友情，不是那么浓烈，也不是那么时时刻刻，甚至有时候会用十年、半个世纪去给它计时，它是那么少，那么真，那么长久。
Like that kind of friendship, it is not so strong, it is not so constant, sometimes it will take ten years or half a century to time it, it is so little, so true, so long.
哪怕很多年后，我一回头，你还在……
Even after many years, when I look back, you are still
朋友之间相处，伤害往往是无心的，帮助却是真心的。
When friends get along, hurt is often unintentional, but help is sincere.
有两个朋友在沙漠中旅行，他们吵了一架，一个打了另一个一记耳光。
Two friends were traveling in the desert. They quarreled, one slapped the other in the face.
被打的一言不语，在沙子上写下：“今天，我的好朋友打了我一巴掌。”
The beaten man said nothing and wrote on the sand: "Today, my good friend slapped me."
他们继续往前走，被打巴掌的那位掉进沙坑，幸好被朋友救出来了。
They went on, and the one who was slapped fell into the bunker. Fortunately, he was saved by his friend.
被救起后，他拿了一把小剑在石头上刻了：“今天我的好朋友救了我一命。”
After being rescued, he took a small sword and carved on the stone: "Today my good friend saved my life."
一旁好奇的朋友问到：“为什么我打了你以后你要写在沙子上，而现在要刻在石头上呢？”
A curious friend asked, "Why do you want to write on the sand after I hit you, but now you want to carve it on the stone?"
另一个笑笑回答说：“当被一个朋友伤害时，要写在易忘的地方，风会负责抹去它；如果被帮助，我们要把它刻在心灵的深处，风是无论如何都抹不去的。”
Another smiled and replied, "When you are hurt by a friend, write it in a forgettable place, and the wind will be responsible for erasing it; if you are helped, we should engrave it in the depths of our hearts, and the wind can't erase it at all."
其实，朋友间的伤害往往是无心的，如果因为这种无心的伤害而失去彼此，那不仅是一种遗憾，而且是一种悲哀。
In fact, the hurt between friends is often unintentional. If we lose each other because of this unintentional hurt, it is not only a pity, but also a sorrow.
我们想要的，是一种不必刻意逞强也不心虚，不时常维系也不歉疚，不必相濡以沫，却随时虚位以待的感情——那是我们人生的休憩之处。
What we want is a kind of feeling that we don't have to try to be brave, don't feel guilty, don't maintain it often, don't feel guilty, don't have to help each other, but always wait for it - that's the rest of our life.
