Should I live in China if I married a Chinese man? If so, what are your opinion and suggestions?
如果嫁给中国男人，我是否该住在中国？
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Zhang Jinyuan Answered Sep 2, 2017
Chinese men are gentle, especially foreign wives
中国男人很绅士，温和，特别是对外国妻子
David Y, lives in China Answered Sep 2, 2017
I think that it depends on you and your lover.
看你和你爱人如何决定了
Villamor V Bon Espiritu, studied at Okayama University Answered Sep 2, 2017
There are big Chinese communities everywhere, not only in China.
国外到处都有华人社区，不一定要呆在中国的
Mario Rossi, 5th year in China Answered Sep 2, 2017
Depends where you are from and what’s your job and his job. I mean, it’s not just because he is chinese that your life will be better in China.
Besides, in China you can enter only with a family visa, but that doesn’t allow you to work.
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看你来自哪个国家，看你和他从事什么工作
并非对方是中国人，你们能留在中国就能过上更美好的生活
拿着探亲签证是可以进入中国，但是不能工作
Stan Joe, b.m. from Tianjin University of Technology (2019) Answered Sep 2, 2017
You can live where you want . Depend on you. You can talk with your fiance.If your boyfriend don’t want to leave china and you love him,you probably live in china.But you can live in china sometimes and live in your hometown sometime.
想住哪里就住哪里。
看你喽。可以和你的未婚夫商量。
如果对方不想离开中国，而你又爱他，那你们就住在中国吧。
可以在中国居住一段时间，然后去你家乡住一段时间。
Calvin A. Chan, studied Law
It really depends on what you and your partner agree on. Yes, there is this mentality of 嫁鸡随鸡，嫁狗随狗 (lit. if you marry a chicken follow the chicken, if you marry a dog follow the dog), but this doesn’t necessarily mean going back to his hometown. Modern Chinese are much more flexible. They might still expect you to pay a visit to their parents every year, or have a wedding in their hometown, but where you two live is (or should be) a matter that can be negotiated between you two.
这个要你们自己做决定啦。俗话说：嫁鸡随鸡，嫁狗随狗
现代中国人是很灵活的，希望每年回去看他们父母一次，在他们家乡举行婚礼。
至于住在哪里，这要你们两个商量做决定
Xing Fan, lives in China Answered Sep 2, 2017
It depends on your financial condition. If your lover is very rich and his major business is in China.I think you should stay in 1 tier or 2 tier city in China. China has better infrastructure and transportation system, the economy is still growing fast and has many opportunities. the elementary education in China is good, price is low except housing price. Most people are nice to foreigners. It is safe here.
But if your lover is white-collar has technique, and you from developed country.I think you should go to your country.China’s medicine system and social welfare is not good as developed countries. The salary of developed country is higher than China. Children could have good time in developed country.
If you are from developing country, and your lover is not rich, you should stay China, too. How about you live in China first for a month.
