如果你不想要某样东西成长，那就背对它，然后它自己就会慢慢死去。就像一株植物被忽视，没有被浇水，它就会枯萎和死去。所以无论何时，当你看到一样假的东西，就只是把它放在一边。
Whenyou want something not to grow, just keep your back to it and it dies if itsown accord. Just like a plant that is neglected, not watered, it withers awayand dies. So whenever you see something that is phony, just put itaside.
如果你正准备要笑，你却突然意识到这个笑是假的，就停止，即便你正在笑着；放松你的嘴唇，请求对方原谅你。告诉他们这个笑是虚假的，你很抱歉。如果一个真实的笑来到，那这是OK的；如果它没有来到，也是OK的。
Ifyou are just about to smile, then suddenly you realize that it would be phony,stop, even in the middle of the smile; relax your lips and ask the person toexcuse you. Tell them it was a phony smile, and you are sorry. If a real smilecomes, then it is okay; if it doesn't, then that is also okay.
你能做什么呢？如果它来了，它就来了；如果它没有来，它就是没有来。你无法强迫它。
Whatcan you do? If it comes, it comes; if it doesn't come, it doesn't. One cannotforce it.
我不是说要摆脱掉社会上的形式跟礼节。我是说要警觉、观照，如果你要虚假，那就带着觉知去做它，知道前面这个人是你的老板，而你必须笑，带着觉知的笑，知道这个笑是虚假的。让你的老板被欺骗——而你不应该被你的假笑所欺骗，这是关键。
I'mnot saying to just get out of the social formalities. I am saying be watchful,and if you have to be false, be it consciously, Knowing that this person isyour boss and you have to smile, smile consciously, knowing well that it isphony. Let the boss be deceived- you should not be deceived by your smile,that's the point.
如果你没有觉知的在笑，你老板可能不会被骗到，因为要欺骗老板是困难的——但是你可能被骗到。你会沾沾自喜，想着你真是太完美了，你真是好样的——但这样你就错过了。
Ifyou smile unconsciously, the boss may not be deceived, because it is difficultto deceive bosses-but you may be deceived. You will pat yourself on the backand think you were perfectly good, such a good boy-but there you are missing.
所以，假如一些事情是必需的——因为它可能是必需的；生活是复杂的，而你不是单独一个人；有很多事情需要你做，因为整个社会都存活在虚假之上——那就带着觉知得虚假。但是在你的关系里，在你可以保持真实的关系里，不要允许虚假。
Soif sometimes you trunk it is necessary-because it may be necessary; life iscomplex and you are not alone; there are many things that you have to dobecause the whole society exists on phoniness-then be phony consciously. But inyour relationships where you can be true, don't allow phoniness.
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