印象对我们的干扰
如果希望被当成恐怖的人，就真诚地、不紧不慢地说出自己经历的恐怖体验。
如果希望被人当成冷酷的人，就说出自己的冷酷的体验。
如果希望被当成拥复杂人性的人，就说出自己经历的麻烦而曲折的体验。
大多数人无法将某人的人格与他的经历区别对待，对这个人的印象经常被他的经历染成一个颜色。
〈The interference of impressions
If you want to be seen as a scary person, be honest and slow about your scary experience. If you want to be seen as cold, speak up about your cold experience.
If you want to be seen as a human being with complex human nature, you should tell your own difficult and tortuous experiences.
Most people cannot distinguish between a person's personality and his experience, and their impression of a person is often colored by his experience.