一、没有谁能够一直陪着你，总有些事情你必须要自己面对、自己解决。而孤独不过是一种人生状态，你依然可以在这个状态里做很多事情。
No one can accompany you all the time. There are always some things you must face and solve by yourself. Loneliness is just a state of life. You can still do a lot of things in this state.
二、人这一辈子，自己的痛苦自己清楚，自己的凄楚自己明白，自己的开心自己体会。或许自己眼里的地狱，却是别人眼里的天堂；可能在自己眼里的天堂，然却是别人眼里的地狱。
People in this life, their own pain, their own sadness, their own understanding, their own happiness, their own experience. Maybe the hell in your own eyes is the heaven in others' eyes; May be heaven in their own eyes, but it is hell in others' eyes.
三、现在人和人之间的矛盾，主要是来源于有那么一拨人，惯于用圣人的标准衡量别人，用贱人的标准要求自己。
Now the contradiction between people mainly comes from a group of people who are used to measuring others by the standards of saints and demanding themselves by the standards of bitches.
四、无论谁离开了你，别忘了在他来之前，你本来就是一个人生活，放不下舍不得的都是不甘心，错的人即使遇见了还是会分开，对的人分开了还是会重逢。——张爱玲
No matter who left you, don't forget that before he came, you were living alone. What you can't let go is unwilling. Even if the wrong person meets, he will separate, and the right person will meet again—— Zhang Ailing
五、走过岁月，走过生活，心里有许多感慨，也有所感悟。生活犹如万花筒，喜怒哀乐，酸甜苦辣，相依相随。也许真的生活不如意，但不必太在意，人生本如梦，岁月不会迁就任何人，要学会看淡一切。
Through the years, through life, there are many feelings and understandings in my heart. Life is like a kaleidoscope of joys, sorrows, ups and downs. Maybe life is really unhappy, but don't care too much. Life is like a dream. Years won't accommodate anyone. We should learn to look down on everything.
六、人生是条漫长的路，荆棘遍布的路面，风景各异的两旁，一开始牵着手的人，不一定会陪你走到最后。
Life is a long road, with thorny roads and different scenery on both sides. The person holding hands at the beginning may not accompany you to the end.
七、我们都很擅长口是心非，却都希望对方有所察觉。闹矛盾时喜欢说话带刺，喜欢不理不睬。懂得你的人会为你放下架子，不懂你的人，维持了僵局，失望的只有你自己。
We are all good at duplicity, but we all want each other to notice. When there are contradictions, he likes to speak with thorns and ignore them. People who know you will put down their airs for you. People who don't know you maintain an impasse. Only you are disappointed.
八、做人不要太玻璃心，不要别人一条信息没回，就觉得自己做错了什么，不要被人一句'哦’，就觉得对方是不在乎你，玻璃心、敏感想太多、什么事情都往坏的方向去想、什么事都对号入座，何必要这么累坏自己。
Don't be too glass hearted. Don't feel that you have done something wrong if others don't return a message. Don't be 'Oh' and feel that the other party doesn't care about you. Glass hearted, sensitive, think too much, think in a bad direction, and take the right seat for everything. Why do you have to be so tired.
九、人生太多的痛苦和不幸，都是因为想要活成“别人那样”，而不是活成“自己这样”。
Too much pain and misfortune in life is because you want to live like 'others', not like 'yourself'.
十、最宝贵的东西不是你拥有的物质，而是陪伴在你身边的人。不能强迫别人来爱自己，只能努力让自己成为值得爱的人。
The most precious thing is not the material you have, but the people who accompany you. Can not force others to love themselves, can only strive to make themselves worthy of love.
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