Whatever the Future of Your Love…
[不管你的爱何去何从]——天堂来信＃5622
God said:
天父说：
Love arrives in many ways. Sometimes love is just quietly noticed where it always was. Sometimes love rushes in like a thunderous herd of horses galloping out of the West. There are no limits to how love can burst in bloom.
爱的到来有许多方式。爱有时就像往常那样，只会静静的被注意到；而有时又有如万马嘶鸣，滚滚而来。爱的绽放不存在任何限制。
Sometimes love does seem to be nothing but a magic trick, and sometimes love blossoms and lasts forever like a burgeoning rose in your heart. Sometimes, the fact alone that you know love exists is enough to put roses in your cheeks.
爱有时看上去也没什么，不过是个小戏法。而有时又会持久盛开，有如你心头的玫瑰，含苞待放。有时，仅是对一份爱意的知晓，就足以染红你的面颊。
You yourself may not have your heart's desire, yet knowing that someone has true love feels good to your heart. Just think of it – love exists. You value love, and that valuing comes from love within you. You are glad that someone has a great love.
你自己内心可能没什么想法，但别人内心的一份真爱也会令你心动。好好感受——爱的存在。你珍视爱，而那份珍视是来自于你内在同样的爱。所以别人的真爱也会让你愉悦。
My children worry about the permanence of love. You may not see it very often -- love that lasts. To you, perhaps falling in love feels like jumping off a cliff. Where you land, no one knows.
我的孩子们往往会对爱的持久忧心忡忡。持久的爱可能不常会看到。对你来说，陷入爱恋就像是从悬崖的纵身一跃。你落在哪里，无人知道。
Whatever the future of your love, you contribute to it. Love is due you, yet you can't just sit there as if you are not a partner in the arrival of love.
别管你的爱何去何从，去付出吧。爱正向你走来，但你不能只是坐在那里，好像它的到来与你无关。
Take care of your own love. Your lovingness is your own. Take care of your own love then. You cannot manage another's love toward you as if you have the say. You can give love, yet you cannot order or instruct another's love. You don't own another's love. You can only give your own God-given love.
好好呵护你的爱。你的爱是你自己的，当然要好好呵护。你不能企图他人爱你，好像决定权在你。你可以给予爱，但不能命令或指使他人的爱。他人的爱不归你所有。你能给出的只是那份属于你的“天赐之爱”。
Too often you don't know what love is anyway. Too often you call attachment love, and you hold too tight. Love cannot be possessed. If you try to possess, you compress the love from another's heart. You don't want to squeeze love too tight.
太多时候，你怎样都不明白爱是什么。太多时候，依恋被你视为爱，紧紧的抓住。爱不可能被占有。如果你试图占有，那是在从别人的心中压榨爱。你也不想爱在挤压中窒息吧。
Love is lived. Love is freedom. Love is like great biceps that can break chains that would imprison. It is the tender heart that breaks chains. You are responsible for breaking your own chains so you do wrap any other in chains.
爱是充满生命力，自由流动的。它就像你上臂的二头肌，可以挣断锁链的禁锢。心虽柔软，但可以挣断锁链。挣断你自身的锁链，以及缠绕在锁链上的其他人是你的责任。
There are no musts about love except that you allow your own love to thrive.
除了让自己的爱更充盈，对爱来说没有什么是必须的。
Life is great theater, and you simply have to wait and see. Love does not have to be accounted for. Love is not a bill that has to be paid. Love is free. It cannot be shackled. You cannot be the decider of another's love and what another's love must look like.
生活是个盛大的剧场，你只能等待和观看。爱不需要解释，它也不是应付的帐单。爱是自由，它无法被桎梏。你不能为他人的爱做主，要求别人应该如何如何。
Sometimes love is a visitor who doesn't stay long. Sometimes you are the host who is sorry to see the visitor leave. This is not for you to moon about. Wave goodbye to the visitor who takes his leave. Smile and blow a kiss. Your welcomed visitor has every right to leave. It is not for you to keep him or her captive. Life has its own timing, even as time is illusion.
爱有时只是个访客，不会久留。作为主人，看到客人离开有时会遗憾，无需牵挂眷恋。向离去的他挥手道别，送上微笑和你的飞吻。被热情款待的客人随时有权离开，他们不为你停留或迷恋。生活有它自己的时间表，即使时间是幻相。
All of this life on Earth is filled with illusion.
地球上的生活充满着幻相。
The love you desire may live in a different dimension from what the world currently offers you of itself. Love cannot be demanded. Demands do not work. A lit match cannot always start a fire. The climate has to be just right, the tinder dry. You cannot assume that you are a force stronger than the wind that blows.
你期望的爱可能来自与当前呈现的世界不同的维度。爱无法被要求，要求不会起作用。星星之火不是总能燎原。气候要对，要足够干燥易燃才可以。你不能假定自己比风的力量更强悍。
Love is not your yo-yo. You do not hold the string to another's love. Love has to go its own way.
爱也不是你的悠悠球。别人的爱就像那绳圈，不能抓在你的手上。爱有它自己的轨迹要走。
Truly, loving is not something that can be taught. You have to open your own heart to experience love. Of course, you may think you have taken several crash courses in love and failed. There are models for you to observe. Not to compare yourself to and put yourself down, no, yet observe those who seem to know how to love and you are glad for.
真的，爱不是教出来的。它需要你敞开心去体验。当然，你可能认为自己在爱中已跌倒过几次，落得丢盔卸甲。这需要你去觉察你过往的模式。没必要把自己和别人比，自我贬低，不要，去观察那些懂得如何去爱而又能让你开心的人。
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