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Life is demanding, so cherish what we have and play it safe!
万事不易，且行且珍惜
People regard love as something sacred and they are devoted to the love to the extent of craziness and persistence. By no means shall they allow their love to be blasphemed, let alone the betrayal from their loved ones, all of which is intelligible.
人们将爱情视为神圣，爱的疯狂，爱的执着，容不得对爱情有半点亵渎，更容不得心爱的人背叛自己，这些都是可以理解的。
However, people tend to fall in love crazily and lose their head (失去理智) and even lack sufficient respect and understanding of their loved ones. Worse than that, some men go too far as to have the groundless suspicion, or even fabricate trouble out of thin air (无中生有地；凭空捏造), creating contradictions, thus negatively affecting the benign development of the normal love, spoiling the mood and even losing the confidence in their love, all of which shows that such a man is more jealous and possessive in love.
可是人们往往因为爱而失去理智，对自己所爱的人缺乏足够的尊重和理解，更甚的是无端猜忌，甚至无中生有，这就有些过分，说明其具有很强的爱情占有欲，这会制造麻烦，产生矛盾，造成感情不和，影响正常爱情的良性发展，搞坏了心情，从而对爱情也会失去信心。
Even if our loved ones turn their back on (抛弃;背弃)us and go with someone else, we should not vent our anger on (迁怒) them. Some guys stubbornly make a clear distinction between love and hatred or fight desperately with each other to perish together in the end.
即便是我们所爱的人移情别恋，我们也不要过去迁怒他人，非要在爱恨情仇上弄个泾渭分明或鱼死网破的结果来。
In such a case, we should try to calm down and figure out our own faults and try to save our love to fight a battle of love by showing our softer side and tender feelings.
然而，这种情况下，我们应该冷静下来，好好找找自己的原因。要是想真心留住所爱的人，就要展现出温柔的一面，要有耐心打一场爱情保卫战。
If we get greatly exasperated and even pull our hair out or come to blows with the other side, the problem remains unsolved. Moreover, if we go to extremes, we may hurt or involuntarily kill the other person, and we may face a lengthy jail term or other harsh punishments, which actually does not mend matters (改进事态).
而不是气急败坏、大打出手，这样是解决不了问题的，而且一旦走向极端，往往会伤及他人或过失杀人，惹来牢狱之苦，那就更加于事无补了！
Here is a typical case: on the morning of December 31, 2015, Tang Wei and his girlfriend Xie Fang squabbled with each other in their leased room in Guangzhou because of emotional problems. Tang Wei suspected that her girlfriend had an affair with another man, so he threatened to kill her with a knife. At this, Xie was scared and locked herself within the bedroom.
2015年12月31日上午，汤伟与其女友谢芳在广州市白云区人和镇的出租屋内因感情问题发生纠纷，由于怀疑女友跟其他男人有暧昧关系，汤伟拿着菜刀威胁对方，谢因此将自己反锁在卧室内。
Before dawn on January 1, 2016, both of them turned into a second quarreling. Later, Tang Wei choked her covering her mouth with both hands, and finally held a knife and stabbed her to death. After that Tang Wei rapidly left after having cleaned up the scene. On January 2, Tang Wei fled to Thailand via Kunming. But later he was arrested.
2016年1月1日凌晨，两人在出租屋内再次争吵，随后汤伟采用捂口、掐颈、持菜刀砍谢的颈部等手段，致被害人谢芳死亡。案发后，汤伟清理好案发现场后离开。1月2日，汤伟由昆明出境逃至泰国，后被抓获。
Love life is a test for the human nature and two persons of the opposite sex learn how to take care of each other through the running-in of the daily life so that both of the lovers can pursue a happy life.
爱情生活是一场对人性的考验，通过日常生活的磨合，彼此关爱有加，共同追求美好的生活，和和美美共享生活的乐趣。
At the same time, in the daily life, they need to respect their loved ones and try to find the advantages and strengths of the other side and also observe and evaluate the weaknesses and personality problems of the other side.
同时，日常生活中，彼此相爱的人都需要尊重对方，发现对方的长处和优点，同时也能发现对方的短处和为人问题。
If you find there remains a far cry between you and your spouse in terms of personality and behavior style, or you find it rather hard to rub along (勉强相处) nicely with each other, either of you should have your head screwed on the right way (头脑清醒) to iron out the problem: either changing yourself to adapt to the common life or making a thorough break and going your separate ways.
如果发现对方和自己性格和行为方式方面存在重大差异，或两人简直不能融洽相处下去，任何一方应该理性解决问题：要么改变自己，适应共同的生活；要么一刀两断、分道扬镳。
If you chose the latter, you would face greater risks. So it requires the effective communication with the other side, begging the full understanding from him or her. If it does not work as expected, you’d better resort to the law and obey the legal ruling.
选择后者，可能会面临着极大的风险。所以要和对方进行很好的沟通，求得对方的谅解。真不行的话，就要诉诸于法律，听从法律的裁决。
Here is another example:
再如：
In 2010, Chen Juan and Tan Yong fell in love and were up to their ears in love (醉入爱河), so they got married at a registry. Soon they had a baby son named “Tan Xiaoqiang”.
2010年陈娟和谭勇自由恋爱，而且爱的不可开交，如是他们于2011年登记结婚，婚后育有一子谭小强。
But soon after their marriage, Tan Yong had affairs with different women. Even so, Chen Juan tried hard to talk patiently with him for improving the conjugal relations, but to no avail (无济于事；没有成效或效果).
婚后谭勇多次出轨，陈娟多次尝试与谭勇进行沟通以改善夫妻关系但均未果。
Now Tan Yong is cohabiting with the other woman. Due to the lack of mutual understanding before marriage, they have not established the goodwill as between spouses, so now they find it difficult to live together, thus there appearing the breakdown of their marital affection, so it is impossible for them to become reconciled and live at peace together. There is no point in maintaining this marriage relation.
现谭勇已与他人同居。由于他们婚前缺乏了解，婚后亦未建立起夫妻感情，现难以共同生活。因此，夫妻感情确已破裂，已无和好可能，继续维持这样的婚姻关系，已不存在任何意义。
They can both cool down and finally come to terms on their divorce through careful and amicable consultation.
二人最终能够冷静下来，通过认真商谈，达成协议离婚。
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Cherish what we have and play it safe
且行且惜
（play it safe： 谨慎行事）
Life is a course of growing up, so we have to continuously adjust our mentality to adapt ourselves to the current life situation.
人生是一个成长的过程，需要我们不断调整自己的心态，以适应生活的现状。
The life of love and marriage must be closely bound up with our life experience and life attitude. Only after we have gone through a relationship can we really know how happy our love and life is and can we cherish our loved ones, and are we willing to do whatever we can for our loved ones by changing the current situation and improving our survival ability to aspire after the common beautiful life.
爱情婚姻生活一定与我们的人生经历和生活态度密切相关，只有经历过，才能懂得爱情的美好，才会珍惜我们所爱的人，并愿意为其付出自己的努力，提升自己的生存能力，改变目前的生存现状，为共同美好的生活奉献自己的一切。
What is the real meaning of human life? This is a question worthy of our constantly pondering over. Now maybe you still fail to figure out a satisfactory answer. However, as we all know, life is full of pains, sufferings and hardships, and sure there is no lack of tender feelings, warmth and happiness. Life is colorful, and we need to work hard work and devote our wisdom.
生命的意义何在？这是值得我们不断思考的问题。也可能你现在还未能找到令自己满意的答案。生命的过程充满了伤痛、苦难和艰辛，但也不乏温情、温暖和幸福。生命是丰富多彩的，需要我们为之付出艰苦的劳作和智慧。
Having gone through or witnessed the prosperities and ups and downs in the world, we can have the abundant life experience and sure we know how to cherish a happy time, look upon and take good care of our beloved ones.
经历过世事繁华和世间沧桑之后，我们才具有丰富的人生阅历，才懂得如何珍惜美好的时光、尊重和爱惜我们所爱的人。
When contradictions and problems arise between us, we can calmly approach them and try to seek sensible solutions. At the same time, we are supposed to get the hang of (熟悉; 了解；掌握) the truth of life: Life is demanding, so just cherish what we have now and play it safe!
当我们之间发生矛盾和问题时，能够冷静面对这些问题并试图用理智解决问题，同时我们也要明白人生的道理：人世间万事不易，且行且珍惜。
★ 作者：Andrew
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