“ 装睡的人叫不醒，想走的人留不住 ”

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Once you have someone to rely on, you will become a kid in kindergarten waiting to be picked up

人一旦有了依赖，就变成了幼儿园等人来接的小朋友。

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No tide, no boat. I have my own sea.

不赶什么浪潮 ，也不搭什么船，我自己有海。

——陈粒

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For most modern people, earphones are an organ for escaping from the world.

对于绝大多数的现代人来讲，耳机是一种用来避世的器官。

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When you give me sugar, someone gave me a cake, but I did not take it, and I will never regret , what I regret is I thought this candy will always sweet.

其实你不知道，在你给我糖的时候，有人给了我蛋糕，我没要，我没要蛋糕我不后悔，后悔的是我以为这颗糖会一直甜。

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You can't wake up someone who's pretending to be asleep, and you can't keep someone who wants to go

装睡的人叫不醒，想走的人留不住。

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Mom said you'd better not miss two things: the last bus home and the one who loves you so much

妈妈说，人最好不要错过两样东西：最后一班回家的车和一个深爱你的人。

—— 独木舟《深海里的星星》

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You can never wait for someone to arrange your life, you have to fight for it. And whether the outcome is happy or sad, the consolation is that you are worth living in this world.

生活不能等别人来安排，要自已去争取和奋斗。而不论其结果是喜是悲，但可以慰藉的是，你总不枉在这世界上活了一场。

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All people and things, you should have a clear conscience, don't force it if it don't belong to you, anyway, what leaves you are the scenery, what is left by your side is life.

所有人和事，自己问心无愧就好，不是你的也别强求，反正离去的，都是风景，留下的，才是人生。

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When you are anxious and tired, listen to some quiet songs, hide in the warm bed and have a good rest. Instead of thinking about those unknown things, or looking around, just build up strength and move on.

焦虑和疲惫的时候，就听些安静的歌躲进温暖的被窝好好休息，不把那些未知的事情想来想去，也不东张西望，就好好积蓄力量好好往前走。

@鸿雁南飞ﾐ：两个人的生活不如单身时过得好，降低原本的生活质量、还有不止一次的谎言、欺骗，不顾及他人感受像赢了一样的沾沾自喜、把善良宽容当软弱，委屈当下而看不到和TA的未来，是时候分开了。

@陈红：仿佛是合租的室友，他做饭我不干涉，我洗衣服他从来也不会帮忙。两个人的关系仿佛只有本本和孩子。两个人不谈心不闲聊没有性，有名无实的婚姻。

那么，今天来聊一聊，哪一个瞬间让你下定决心分手？

今日话题：

“ 哪一个瞬间让你下定决心分手？ ”