关于爱情、婚姻、友情和生活，亦舒或许写出了一个女人该有的姿态。
一个女子，必须先凭双手争取生活，才有资格追求快乐、幸福、理想。
A lady must work hard for her life, then she's qualified to pursue joy, happiness and dreams.
无论如何要有职业，因而结识志同道合的同事、朋友、对象，届时，可以结婚生子，也可以独身终老，这叫做选择，亦即是自由。
She has to have her own career to get to know like-minded colleagues, friends and partners. Then she could choose to get married or stay single till death, which is called choice and freedom.
——《红到几时》
人们日常所犯最大的错误，是对陌生人太客气，而对亲密的人太苛刻，把这个坏习惯改过来，天下太平。
The biggest mistake people usually make is being too polit to strangers, but too harsh to their close friends and families. If we correct it, then we'll keep a very nice relationship with others.
——《美丽新世界》
真正属于你的爱情不会叫你痛苦，爱你的人不会叫你患得患失，有人一票就中了头奖，更有人写一本书就成了名。
The love that belongs to you will not bedevil you, the person that loves you will not make you lack of the sense of security. Someone may hit the jackpot at a time; someone may become famous after his first book.
凡觉得辛苦，即是强求。真正的爱情叫人欢愉，如果你觉得痛苦，一定是出了错，需及时结束，重头再来。
Once you feel tired, it means you're striving for something that doesn't belong to you. If you feel painful, there must be something wrong with the love you have. And you should stop the relationship and start it with the right person because real love makes you happy.
——《我爱，我不爱》
我要很多很多的爱。如果没有爱，那么就很多很多的钱，如果两件都没有，有健康也是好的。
I need countless love, if I cannot get it , then I will need countless money. If I cannot have both of them, owning health is also alright.
——《喜宝》
结婚与恋爱毫无关系，人们老以为恋爱成熟后便自然而然的结婚，却不知结婚只是一种生活方式，人人可以结婚，简单得很。
Getting married has nothing to do with affection. However, people always believe that we will naturally get married when our relationship turn mature. But they are not aware of one thing that marriage is just a life style. The truth is that each one of us can get married. It is very simple.
而爱情完全是另外一回事。
But true love is totally another thing.
——《我的前半生》
任何一个人离开你，都并非突然做的决定，人心是慢慢变冷，树叶是渐渐变黄，故事是缓缓写到结局，而爱是因为失望太多才变成不爱。
It is not a sudden decision that anyone leaves you. The human heart is getting grim as time goes by; The leaves are becoming yellow; The story is written to the end little by little.But love is that you don't love at last on account of feeling too disappointed.
一一《如果墙会说话》
无论怎么样，一个人借故堕落总是不值得原谅的，越是没有人爱，越要爱自己。
In any case, a person is unforgivable for falling. You should love yourself even though nobody loves you.
——《星之碎片》
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