什么都舍不得扔是一种病

什么都舍不得扔，总觉得将来可能会用得上，加上又控制不了买的源头，造成东西的积压，心情的压抑，这其实是一种病。

If everything is thought to be useful in future and the desire of buying things can't be limited,  the house will be overstocked, causing the oppressive feeling, which is actually a disease.

家里堆积的东西不想收拾的理由有很多，有的人是想逃避现实，找诸如没时间的理由，或是有的人沉浸在过去的记忆，而舍不得扔的东西正好承载了那样的记忆，或是有的人囤积很多东西是为了将来备用。其实我们既回不去曾经的自己，也不能安排未来的我们，所以没必要积压那么多的记忆及担忧自己的未来。过去的我们回不去，将来的还没来到我们身边，只有当下才是最值得把握的。

The reason why plenty of things are kept so far is that some people escape from the fact by making excuses like having no time, or some people immerse in the bygone memories whose real embodyments are that much things, or some people hoard things that might be used in future. Actually we can neither go back to the bygone ourselves, nor arrange our futures, therefore it's not neccessary for us to store that many memories and worry about our futures. It's better we cherish what we have now.

人生应该是向前看的，我们不但要扔掉我们以为将来有用的东西，还有清理没用的人际关系，比如当你真正需要帮助的时候，人家未必会帮助你，而你也不想去找人家。

Life should be forward by laying down the things which are thought to be useful in future, and sweeping the useless interpersonal relations, for example, others might not provide you with what you need, and you don't want to turn them for help.

旧的不去，新的不来。没用东西的积压限制了你发现新的东西，回不去的过去的记忆的积压限制了你追求新的记忆。只有轻装上阵，才能得心应手，才不会心里压抑。

The new things never come before the old things are gone. The useless things confine you to discover new things; The past memories confine you to pursue new memories. Only under less loans can we be in our elements and be not oppressive.

对于日常的东西要理性购买，才不至于积压；对于没有价值的感情不要随意挥霍，才不至于被多愁善感缠绕，才能治愈这种病。

It's neccessary that we shop reasonably so as not to overstock and not fall into valueless emotions randomly so as not to be troubled by sensitivity.