人生就是与他人分分合合的过程，有的人能让你发现生命中的小确幸，有的人却总能让你生活在“水深火热”中。 你有没有碰见过下面这些类型的人呢?要是碰到了就赶紧远离吧，生活还是“清净”一点为好~
1. People are jealous and critical of you.
总是嫉妒和批评你的人。
Nonstop criticism. Such people can hear nobody but themselves. Criticism is their basic instinct, and they criticize whatever you say or do.
无休止的批评。这样的人眼里只有自己，谁的话也听不进去。批评是他们的本能，无论你说什么做什么，他们总是挑刺儿。
Jealousy of even your smallest achievements. Such people will never be happy for your success because they think they are the only ones who deserve to be respected and praised. They are so insecure that they treat everyone like enemies.
即使你取得的只是一个非常小的成就，他们也会嫉妒不已。这样的人永远不会为你的成功而感到高兴，因为他们认为只有他们才值得被尊重、被赞扬。他们没什么安全感，所以把每个人都当作假想敌。
2. People take everything you do for them for granted.
认为你为他们做的一切都是理所当然的人。
Such people take everything for granted, and there is nothing they see as extraordinary. You cooked a holiday dinner not because you wanted to make your soul mate happy but because you had to. Despite such obvious indifference, many people choose not to notice it. Put yourself first there are a lot of grateful and decent people around.
这种人认为一切都理所当然。你做了一顿假日大餐，不是因为你想让你的灵魂伴侣开心，而是因为这是你应该做的。尽管这种人的冷漠表现得很明显，但是许多人还是选择不去在意。不要这样傻啦，试试把自己的需求放在第一位，放眼望去，身边还是有很多会感恩很正派的人的。
3. People are being parasites.
非常懒惰的“寄生虫”。
Such people are not interested in your feelings and needs at all. They get their footing thanks to you, but they still think that nobody deserves anything more than they do. Living with such people is a challenge. They influence not only your mood and financial situation but also your professional growth.
这样的人不在乎你的感情和需求。托你的福，他们有了立足之地，但他们仍然认为没有人比他们更有资格得到任何东西。和这样的人一起生活是一个巨大的挑战，因为他们不仅影响你的情绪和财务状况，还影响你的职业发展。
4. People are manipulating you.
想掌控你生活的人。
Small favors are no big deal. However, if you feel like you are in a hamster wheel without a good reason, you are being manipulated. Such people can give you nothing but a headache. They love it when their dreams come true and when their goals are reached. They never give, only take. If you stop falling into their traps, they will most likely start looking for a new puppet.
小恩小惠没什么大不了的。然而，如果不知怎么的，你感觉自己好像身处牢笼，这时你可能就已经被操纵了。这样的人只会让你头痛，当他们实现梦想达到目标时，他们就会喜欢操纵别人。这样的人从不给予，只会索取。如果你不再受他们控制了，他们很可能会开始寻找一个新的木偶。
你身边是不是有这样的人呢?但愿没有，要是有的话还是早日脱离“苦海”的好，你说是吧?
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