《婚姻关系》十大成功法则10 Principles of Success in Marriage...

宽恕FORGIVENESS

大多数人认为“婚姻”的实质只在于“蜜月期”或“初恋期”。事实上，最考验“婚姻关系”的是在“困难期”，而在“困难期”更容易分离。 所以可悲的是，如果你不愿意宽恕，那么这场战争已经输了一半，因为人是不完美的。

Most people think of marriage in only the good times or how things were in the beginning.But the truth is, the strength of a union is in the bad times, The difficult times when it’s easier to be apart than together. So the sad truth is, if your not willing to forgive, then the battle is already half lost. People are not perfect.

信任TRUST

“信任”一个人不简单，难得易失。“信任”比“爱”更长久地维系一段感情。一开始很容易相信别人，因为没有理由不相信别人或者怀疑别人。但一旦信任被打破，要重新获得信任将会是一场艰苦的战斗，即使关系复合了，伤害也不会真正消失，怀疑永远会存在。但如果双方都愿意，你们可以继续努力并取得好进展。

Trust is complicated , hard to gain and easily lost. Trust will keep a union together longer than love ever could. In the beginning it’s easy to trust or give the benefit of doubt simply because there’s no reason why not to.But once trust is broken, its an uphill battle to regain it , and even if you do come close, the damage never really goes away doubt will always remain. But if both are willing, You can work on it and get to a good place.

忠诚LOYALTY

“忠诚”，意味着站在配偶一边，不管是对还是错。忠诚就像一颗种子，永远会带来好的结果，无论结果如何，你的伴侣都知道你站在他这边。这加强了他内在的信念和对你的信心。忠诚是保障，而保障能让你们的婚姻安全可靠。人们很容易怀疑爱情，动摇信任和其他一切。所以，请做一些简单的事情来表达你的忠诚。因为本身来说，“忠诚”是很有吸引力的。

This means taking someone’s side no matter what, right or wrong, Loyalty is a seed that will always yeild good results. When your partner konws your on their side no matter the outcome. It strengthens them internally and their belief and faith in you. Loyalty is security and security will keep you union safe and protected. It’s easy to doubt love, trust and everything else. So please work on the simple things that will show your loyalty. Because in it’s self, loyalty is attractive.

关爱CARE  

“关爱”是个简单的词，却能疗愈一些最大的问题。做一些小事情来表达你对对方的关爱，这会增强你们之间的感情，反之亦然，对关爱的回应也很重要。请记住，这些我们认为理所当然的小事情，当我们不再拥有时，我们最终会怀念太多。

Care is a simple word that will heal some of the biggest problems. Showing someone how much you care with the simple things will strengthen every union. It’s also important to recognise the little things your partner does to show they care. Remember it’s the simple things we take for granted that we eventually miss the most when they are no more.

共同目标COMMON GOALS

这看起来很简单，但重要的是要知道你打算和谁建立关系。事实上，如果你们在生活中追求的东西不同，那么你可能需要重新考虑一些事情。任何婚姻都是关于旅程而不是目的地。所以，如果你们两个不是同路人，你们的道路将不会交集，从一开始就是一场持续的战争This might seem rather simple but it’s important to know the person you intend to get into a union with. The fact is if your different people who are after different things in life and out of the union then you might want to rethink a few things. Any union is more about the journey than destination. So if you both on different journeys your paths will not cross and its a constant struggle from the beginning.

沟通COMMUNICATION

这是婚姻关系最重要的方面之一。沟通能力比你们所想象的更有助于你们的关系。彼此谈论一些简单的或者不同的事情会让你们关系更亲近。学会倾听和理解对方，并希望他们为你也能这么做。 

This is one of the most important aspects of any union. Being able to communicate will unite you more than you think. Talking to each other about simple things and different things will bring you closer. Learn to listen and understand the other person and hopefully they do the same for you.

协作UNITY

“婚姻关系”中的协作会产生一种力量，持续让你们在同一条道路上前行。无论目标是什么，齐心协力走在同一条路上会更多地成就彼此。在任何冒险事业中，团结协作是至关重要的，婚姻关系也是如此。

Staying united in any union is a strength that keeps you travelling on the same path. And staying on the same path you achieve more both in each other and whatever the goal might be. Togetherness is vital in any venture and it’s the same with a union between two people.

支持SUPPORT

向别人提供支持，永远是最值得欣赏的事情之一。无论是在好时光里还是在困难时期，这些支持的种子深植在人们的心中，让人难以忘怀。所以抓住每一个机会展示你的支持，它总会以这样或那样的方式得到回报。Showing your support to another person is one of those things that will always be appreciated . Whether in good times or bad ones. These seeds of support get planted deep in people’s hearts and are difficult to forget. So take every opportunity to show your support and it always gets returned in one way or another.

 

坚持不懈PRESEVERANCE

事实上，生活中大多数事情都不是一蹴而就的，需要付出很多努力。困难面前永不言弃的人最有可能实现目标。你必须为你想要的生活而奋斗！“同甘共苦”意味着，既能够一起享受美好时光，当处境困难时，又能够彼此加强协作一起投入战斗！

 Truth is most things in life are not achieved overnight and almost take a lot of work. But the ones that achieve their goals are those that never give up no matter how hard things get. You have to fight for what you have and want in life. Enjoy the good times and strengthen each other for when things get hard which they will so you can fight together.

“爱”LOVE

“爱”，对许多人来说意味着不同的东西，它可以用几种不同的方式表现出来。“爱”体现在婚姻关系的方方面面。“爱”是仁慈，“爱”是宽恕，“爱”是关注并提升对方，“爱”是永远不会放弃你所爱的人，“爱”是关怀和忠诚。毫无疑问，“爱”是一种信念。“爱”是一切美好的事物，这意味着你总是想要传递你《爱的宣言》！

Love means different things to many people and it can be displayed in several different ways. Love embodies all the aspects that make any union. Love is kindness, Love is forgiveness. Love is focusing on someone’s strength and uplifting them. Love is never giving up on whom you love. Love is care and loyalty. Love is belief without a doubt. Love is everything that’s good, which means you can never rub out of ways to show love.

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