坚信年轻就会被原谅的小伙伴们，二十几岁如果你依然傻傻天然呆，继续无视旁人的感受，那么你要小心了。在这个拼人品的时代里，你很可能因为一两个坏习惯被小伙伴们拉仇恨哦！想要人见人爱，花见花开？先看看下面这些小细节让你躺枪了没？
1. 别人在用电脑时，在人家背后徘徊观望，容易招人讨厌哦！
Don't stand over someones shoulder while they're at a computer.
2. 群聊时有新人加入，帮他们脑补一下之前的聊天内容，你的人品会瞬间加分哦！
If you're having a group conversation and someone isn't clued in to the topic being discussed, fill them in.
3. 冰箱里的冰块用完了，你会顺手再冻上一盒吗？此规则适用于餐巾盒、厕纸等各种用完需要填补的生活用品。
There are two types of people in this world: normal nice people who refill the ice cube tray when they use the last cube, and the jerks who don't.
4. 约会规则：如果甲邀请乙出门，那么甲应该买单，乙可以接受，或者选择各付各的。
The social transaction rule goes like this: If person A asks person B out on a date, person A should offer to pay. Person B can accept the offer or choose to split the bill.
5. 人家提到累了或者明天一早要工作时，你知道自己该撤了吧！
If someone you're with says they're tired or they have to get to work early in the morning, that's your cue to leave.
6. 集体吃饭大家各付各的，请不要自找没趣。
Don't put up a fight when everyone decides to split the bill at dinner.
7. 参加派对，带瓶酒去总不会有错。
Always bring wine to a dinner party.
8. 出门在外带点现金吧！
Hit the ATM before you go out.
9. 借钱一定要还！怕忘？那就在手机联系人后面敲上钱数吧!
Pay people back. Here's a tip: if you owe someone money, add the amount to their name in your phone contacts.
10. 别哪壶不开提哪壶！
Don't point out noticeable features that the person you’re talking to might feel self-conscious about, or can’t readily fix.
11. 千万别当面说人家看上去很疲惫。
Never tell someone they look tired.
12. 记住聊天里没有“体重”这个话题，哪怕你觉得那是种赞美。
There is never a need to remark on someone's weight, even if you consider it to be a compliment.
13. 如果有人约你出去，但是你很忙，请别只说“我忙”，想想办法下次怎么安排。
If someone wants to hang out and you're busy, don't just say, “I'm busy.”
14. 放鸽子这件事只能说明你有多不靠谱。
Don't be a flake. Show up when you say you're going to show up.
15. 坐了别人家的车，至少客气地表示一下要掏油钱和通行费。
If someone's driving you around, offer to pay for gas and tolls.
16. 吃货爱吃，取之有道。别人家的菜，别碰！
When it comes to food that isn't yours, never open or finish a package unless you have special permission.
17. 别人给你看张手机里的照片，看看就好，别上手往右划。
If someone hands you their phone to look at a photo, do not DO NOT under any circumstance swipe to the right.
18. 服务员也会碰上糟糕的一天，对他们好点儿吧！
Assume all service workers are having a bad day and be nice.
19. 这个主意你不喜欢？奉劝你一句：You can you up, no can no BB.
If you don't like an idea, don’t shoot it down unless you can propose an alternative one.
20. 约会的一项基本原则：好友喜欢的或者曾经喜欢的人，追之前还是先问一声的好。
And finally, the cardinal rule of dating: Don’t pursue someone you know your friend likes/used to like without permission from said friend.
