A season　Ａ　reason or Ａ lifetime

    我曾经很喜欢的一段英文文章，现在看起来仍然很有感觉,不知道你是a season a reason or a lifetime

a season a reason or a lifetime

        People come into your life for a reason,a season,or a lifetime.When you figure out which one it is,you will know what to do for each person.

        人们走进你的生活，或者是为了一个原因，或者他们只停留一段时间，或者他们永远与你相随。一旦明晓其中究竟，你就知道该如何面对他们了。

        When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seems like a Godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

       有的人出现在你的生活中是有原因的，通常他们填补了你流露出来的需要：帮你度过难关，指点和支持你，切实地在物质上、情感上、精神上帮助你。他们出现是因为你需要他们。然后在你毫无过错或一个很不合时宜的时候，这人会说了些什么或者做点什么令你们中止了友谊。有时候他们离你而去，有时候他们故意找茬而逼得你要奋起反抗，有时候是因为他们逝世。我们必须认识到，自己的需要已经满足了，我们的愿望实现了，他们的工作也就完成了。你的需要得到了回应，接着的是要继续前行。

       Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow and learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
       有的人在你的生活中会停留一段时间，那是因为你到了这样的一个时候：成长、学习，并和别人一起分享你的世界。他们让你体验平和，也让你欢笑。他们可能也会叫你做一些以前从没坐过的事情。相信这一点！这是真的！可这只能维持一段时间。

       LIFETIME relationship teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationship and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

       持续一生的情谊将令你终生受益；为了建造一个坚不可摧的感情基础，你必须依靠这一点。你要做的只是去接受经验，对一生相随的人付出关爱，并将你所学到的应用到生命中的其他关系和方方面面中。爱情令人盲目，而友谊却能醍醐灌顶，据说如此。