I met the boy at the beginning of 2010 .
He is the only boy , tall enough ,has a good job which I want my Mr Right to do ,and good salary in SH.
He likes me so much at the first sight ,gave me call every day .
He talked with me about his family ,his childhood ,his job ...
We could talk long time ,one hour ..two hour of each call .
However ,I had no any feeling on him from beginning to end
And ,I was utterly repulsive to him after about 1 month .
Why ?
Because he told me his 1 bad thing .
I didnot say anything to him or other person at first , I was thinking how to deal with it .
But he always talked about the marriage ,and asked me to work in SH .
I told him that I wanted to work for the current Co 1 more year and then thought over the marriage .
He didnot care what I said and thought , he still talked that again and again on each call .
What is more ,his mom made the request as him ,I know his mon and dad like me very much too .
But at that time ,I didnot want the thing to go so fast .
I wanted to know more about him .
All my plans destroyed soon ...
I told my mom about his bad thing one day after I couldnot stand their urgent request.
Then my mon asked my aunt to check this .
The situation was worse from the time .
My aunt asked his mom about the bad thing ,then his mom scolded him why he was so honest to tell me that.
He didnot deal with it well ,scolded and shouted at me instead .
And asked me to say good thing to his mom because I relieved the bad thing ..I did as what he said .Ididnot want the thing to go worst
What the boy was ?
The matter was out from his mouth ,he had me save it instead .
He said sorry to me and still called me often ,but I spoke a little ...even none .
I started to refuse what he required and againsted what he said .
I thought he would never contact me when I refused to answer his phone 2-3 times .
However ,he texted me and called my family phone to greet my parents .
And he bought some gifts for me when he went out for business .
I wasnot touched ...
My aunt told me he didnot go meet any other girls even though I refused him so much .
He said he will wait for me until the end of 2010.
He came to SZ in NOV,2010 .
He brought me the key of new house bought in SH ,and said :" let me go buy a ring for you .:
I didnot accept .
We overed finally ,soon after I didnot give him any chance ....
The boy and his family liked me so much ,what I did ?
I asked myself was it too much of me ?
I gave up the happiness he offered .
It was right or wrong ?
Anyway ,the boy ,sorry ...I got what I want or not based on what I did ..
Wish each us a good future ...
