他们的孩子只是胃口不好了,或者睡眠不好了,坚信吃两天药就可以的; 有些家长也会非常内疚,觉得孩子生病是自己的错,很自责; 看到孩子遭受痛苦,挣扎无助,大多数父母也都不同程度的感受到自恋受损,从而感到愤怒和羞耻。
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