可以疗伤的信

　　When you write a very angry letter to a friend who has hurt you deeply, don’t send it! Let the letter sit on your table for a few days and read it over a number of times. Then ask yourself: “Will this letter bring life to me and my friend? Will it bring healing, will it bring a blessing?” You don’t have to ignore the fact that you are deeply hurt. You don’t have to hide from your friend that you feel offended. But you can respond in a way that makes healing and forgiveness possible and opens the door for new life. Rewrite the letter if you think it does not bring life, and send it with a prayer for your friend.

　　当你向一位深深伤害过你的朋友写一封充满怨恨的信时，不要发出。让这封信在你桌子上躺几天，过段时间再去读它。然后，这样问自己：“这封信会给彼此带来生命吗? 会治愈伤痛或带来祝福吗？“ 。你不用无视自己受到的伤害，也不用躲避伤害你的朋友。但你可以通过一种可以带来治愈和宽恕的方式来回应，并开启通往新生命的大门。如果你认为这封信无法带来生命，重写它，然后带着对朋友的祈祷，将信发出。