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今天早上被一个我不怎么熟悉,但自称多次注意到我的网友提的“建议”,带来了一些小烦恼,于是越发感觉菜头叔关于提建议的提醒值得我注意。
现在就分享出来,一是提醒自己,二是给咱也看看有没有启发。
成年人交往的基本法则:
1、别人没有主动求助,那么就不要提供建议;
2、自己知道但没有亲自做过,那么就不要提供建议;
3、在给出建议之前,要么有自己亲身经历,要么有证据支持,否则不要建议;
4、最好别建议。
今天就是分享,暂时没啥想说的,老规矩为了加深印象,也顺便练练英语,咱用AI把它翻译成英语:
DeepL翻译:
Basic rules of adult interaction:
1. that others do not offer to ask for help, then do not offer advice;
2. know it themselves but have not done it themselves, then do not offer advice;
3. before giving advice, either have your own personal experience or have evidence to support it, otherwise do not advise;
4. it is best not to advise.
GPT翻译:
Basic rules for adults in social interactions:
1. If others haven't actively sought help, don't offer advice.
2. If you know something but haven't personally experienced it, don't offer advice.
3. Before giving advice, make sure you have first-hand experience or evidence to support it; otherwise, don't offer advice.
4. It's best not to offer advice at all.
希望我的分享,对你也有启发。
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