承诺了就不忘履行
陈荣生 译
（图片欣赏——张君良摄/太原）
从一开始，女孩家人就不同意她与男孩的关系。他们说，由于家庭背景的不同，如果她坚持要与男孩在一起，那她将会受苦一生。
家人施加的压力，让她经常和他吵架。女孩真的很爱男孩，她总是问他：“你有多爱我？”男孩不善言辞，所以常常惹她生气。在家人不断地评说下，她的情绪变得更糟。男孩成了她“发泄怒气的靶子”。不过，男孩不吭声，让她不断地在他身上发泄怒气。
后来，男孩大学毕业了。他打算出国深造，临行前，他向女孩求婚：“我不会说好话，但我知道我爱你。你要是同意，我愿意照顾你，一辈子。你家人那里，我会努力说服他们，让他们同意我们的事。嫁给我，好吗？”
女孩答应了。
她父母看到了男孩所做出的努力，同意了他们。最终，在男孩出国之前，他们订婚了。女孩仍然留在家乡，步入了工薪社会，男孩则出国继续学习。他们通过电话和书信保持联系。尽管这种日子很难度过，但他们俩却不放弃。
一天，女孩像往常一样离开家去上班，在前往巴士站的路上，一辆小车失去了控制，把她撞倒了。她从昏迷中醒过来时，看到父母在身边，才意识到她受到了严重伤害，但她很幸运，没有被撞死。
看着泪流满面的父母，她想安慰他们。但此时她发现一个字也说不出来，她尽全力想发出一点声音，但她所能做到的，就是发不出声音的呼吸。她哑了。医生说，这次受伤影响到她的大脑，导致她将会终身不能说话。她能够听到父母的劝说，但却一个字也无法回答，女孩崩溃了。在那些日子里，她除了默默地哭，还是哭。
后来，女孩出院了。回到家里，一切都还和以前一样，只是电话铃声成了她最怕的噩梦。铃声一声接一声，不断地刺激她，刺激她的痛苦。可是她不能对男孩说。她不想成为他的一个负担，于是就给他写了一封信，告诉他她再也不想等了，他们的关系结束了，甚至还将订婚戒指还给他。面对男孩的回信和电话，她所能做的就是让泪水从眼里往外涌。
她父亲看到她所受到的痛苦，就决定搬家。女孩希望自己能够忘记过去的一切，在新环境中过得开心一点，就开始慢慢地学习手语，并重新开始她的人生。她还让自己忘掉那个男孩。
一天，她的闺蜜告诉她，男孩回来了。他在到处找她，她叫闺蜜不要对他讲她的事，叫他忘了她。之后，在一年多时间里，再也没有男孩的消息了。一天，她闺蜜告诉她男孩很快就要结婚了，并把婚柬递给她。她伤心地打开婚柬，但却看到上面写着她的名字。
她正要问闺蜜怎么回事，男孩出现在她面前了。他用半生不熟的手语对她说：“我花了一年多的时间，强迫自己学手语，为的是能够告诉你，我没有忘记我们的承诺，给我一个机会，让我来当你的声音。我爱你。”
看着男孩缓慢的的手语和她退给他的订婚戒指，她终于露出了笑脸。
在人生中，不要做一个诺夫，遇到问题就逃跑，一定要记住，所有问题都有解决办法，永远不要伤害别人的心，因为你不知道哪天这种事情就会发生在你身上。
（作者佚名，译自《寓意故事》）
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Fulfilling a Promise
Ever since the beginning The girl’s family member disagree her relationship with the boy. Saying that because of family background, if she insist of being together with the boy, she’ll suffer for her whole lifetime.
Because of the pressure applied by family members, she frequently quarrel with him. The girl does love the boy, she used to ask him, “How much do you love me?” Because the boy is not good with words, he used to make her angry. With additional comment from her parents, her mood get even worse. The boy, has become her “anger releasing target”. And the boy, just silently allowed her to continuously release her anger on him.
Later, the boy graduated from University. He plan to further study overseas but before he left. He proposed to the girl… ” I, don’t know how to say nice words but I do know that, I love you. If you agree, I am willing to take care of you, the whole life. About your family members, I will work hard to convince them and agree on us.Marry me, will you?”
The girl agreed.
And her parents, looking at the effort shown by the boy, agreed with them. Finally, before the boy go oversea, they are engaged. The girl stay back in the hometown, step into the working society where as the boy continuing his study oversea. They maintained their relationship through telephone and letters. Although time is difficult to get through with, but both of them never give up.
One day, the girl left home for work as usual on her way to the bus stop, a car lose control and knock her down. As she awake from unconsciousness, she saw her parents and realize how seriously she got hurt and how fortunate of her, not to get killed.
Looking at her parents, with their faced got all wet by their tears, she tried to comfort them. But then, she found out that She can’t even spell out a word, she tried her best to make some voice but all she managed, was to breath without any voice. She’s mute. According to the doctor, the injury affected her brain, and that cause her to be mute for the rest of her life. Listening to her parents persuade, but can’t even reply with a single word, the girl collapsed. Throughout the days, others than crying silently, still it is crying.
Later, the girl discharged from hospital. Returning to her home, everything is still like before. Except that the phone ring, has turned into the worst nightmare of hers. Ring after ring, continuously stimulate her, stimulating her pain But she can’t tell the boy. She don’t want to be a burden to him, and wrote him a letter telling him that she no longer want to wait, the relationship between them ended, and even returned him the engagement ring. Facing the letters and telephone from the boy, all she can do, is to allow tears falling from her eyes.
Her father decided to move, after seeing the pain she is suffering. Hoping that she could forget everything and be happier into a new environment, the girl started to learn, slowly picking up sign language and start over again. Also telling herself to forget the boy.
One day, her best friend tell her that the boy’s back. He’s searching all around for her, she asked her best friend not to tell him about her and asked her to tell him to forget her. After that for more than a year there was no news of boy. One day her best friend tells her, that the boy is getting married soon, and passed the Wedding Card to her. She open the card sadly, but she found her name on the card.
The moment she want to ask her best friend, the boy appear in front of her. With an unfamiliar sign language, he told her ”I spent more than a year’s time, to force myself to learn sign language, in order to tell you, I have not forgot our promise, give me an opportunity, let me be your voice. I love you.”
Looking at the slow sign language by the boy, and the engagement ring she gave back to him, She finally smiled.
Moral: Do not be a coward and run away whenever there is a problem, remember that every problem has a solution, never ever break someone’s heart, you may not know when it will happen to you.
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